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2007年,民政部门的一项调查结果显示,因“家务分配不公”而引发家庭矛盾、最终导致协议离婚,且婚龄在10年以内的夫妻占44.6%。婚姻专家感叹说:毁坏婚姻大厦的,往往不是大事件。而是在琐事上累积的怨气。很多25～45岁的女性反映,丈夫很少分担家务,致使她们每天疲于奔命,出现了亚健康状态,甚至更年期提早到来。这些女性认为,如今九成以上的女性承受着与男性一样的工作压力和竞争状况,而且还要承担教养子女的大部分压力,如果家务事再一肩挑,势必会使之陷入“一根蜡烛两头燃”的境地,身心俱疲。据一家网站统计,家务事“重女轻男”的现象在北方地区,尤其是东北地区更为突出,夫妻共同承担家务的比例只有18.7%,主要由男方承担家务的只占6.2%;而在江浙沪一带,这两项的比例却分别高达43%和16.8%,这也是那些区域女性对婚姻的满意度和幸福感更高的一个重要原因。那么,男人为何不愿做家务?家务事“重女轻男”的现象是女人宠惯出来的吗?我们来看下面这一大家子人是如何各摆各的理、各诉各的苦的。
In 2007, according to a survey conducted by the civil affairs department, the clashes between families caused by “unfair distribution of housework” eventually led to the divorce of the agreement, with 44.6% of couples having a marriageable age of less than 10 years. Marriage experts lament: destruction of marriage mansion, often not a big event. It is the grudge accumulated on the trivia. Many women aged 25-45 reflect that husbands rarely share housework, leaving them exhausted every day, sub-health, or even an earlier menopause. These women think that more than 90% of women today are under the same job pressure and competition as men, and they also have to bear the majority of the pressure to raise their children. If the household tasks are shouldered again and again, they are bound to fall into the category of “one Two burning candles ”situation, physically and mentally fatigued. According to one website statistics, the phenomenon of “dignified women and men” is more prominent in the north, especially in the northeast. Only 18.7% of husband and wife share the same housework, while only 6.2% of the men mainly undertake housework. In Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, the proportions of the two are as high as 43% and 16.8% respectively. This is also an important reason why women in the region are more satisfied with their marriage and have a higher sense of well-being. So, why do men do not want to do housework? Housework “heavy women light man ” phenomenon is a woman used to come out of it? We look at the following this is how we all put their own children, each of the various bitter.