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在心理咨询中,语言是最主要的咨询工具。可是语言的咨询往往很容易让咨询双方限于理性的层面,咨询师不能一下子抓住问题的实质,不能深入挖掘问题后面的背景,导致咨询只限于来访者的表面问题,然后“头痛医头,脚痛医脚”。另外来访者的防御心理、阻抗往往还会使咨询走很多弯路。其实,潜意识才是人们行为的主要动因,潜意识犹如冰山下的神秘力量,看似无法控制却又左右着我们,它常常以各
In counseling, language is the most important counseling tool. However, language consultation is often very easy for the two parties to be confined to the rational level. Consultants can not immediately grasp the essence of the problem and can not dig deep into the background behind the question. As a result, the consultation is confined to the superficial issue of the visitor. Then, , Foot pain feet ". In addition, the defensive psychology of visitors, the impedance will often take counseling take many detours. In fact, the subconscious is the main motivation for people’s behavior, the subconscious is like a mysterious force under the iceberg, seemingly beyond our control, but it often in each