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我们以为我们变得低调了,其实直白一些,就是真的老了。其实上有老,下有小的中年期已经过了好些年了,但是从心理上,似乎总在抗拒“中年”这个听起来略有沉重,满是无奈的词语。昨天晚上秧秧洗脸刷牙时候,与我争论一个问题,我发现用她目前能理解的语境解释不通,于是就搪塞了一句,等你长大了就能明白了。她于是怏怏地说,我好想快点长大啊!秧妈我于是想,小时候的我,何尝不是和她一样,每天踮起脚尖,想着快点长大呢?可是很奇怪,长着长着,到今天,我特别想回到她那样的时光。我们人小的时候,总是心很大,想着自己未来可以如何如何,哪怕不能拯救地球,至少也能作出一番丰功伟绩来。对于爱情,我们有太多的童话故事咀嚼不停,至于婚姻,那好像是小说里的事情;对
We think we have become low-key, in fact, some straightforward, that is really old. In fact, there are old, under a small middle age has passed for many years, but psychologically, always seems to resist “middle age ” This sounds a little heavy, full of helpless words. Last night when I was shaking my face and brushing my teeth, I argued with a question that I found out that I could not explain it in the context that she can understand so far. She then shyly said, I really want to hurry to grow ah! Seedling mom I thought, a child I, is not like her, tiptoe every day, thinking of hurry up? But very strange, with With this, today, I especially want to go back to her time. When we were young, we always felt great about our future. If we could not save the earth, we could at least make a great accomplishment. For love, we have too many fairy tale chewing non-stop, as for marriage, it seems to be something in the novel;