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在自由和尊重中成长的孩子,会有令人惊奇的自律行为。朋友兴冲冲地跑来跟我说,她治好了8岁儿子的“电脑游戏瘾”。我好奇地问她是怎么做到的。朋友信奉“虎妈”教育,没有最严,只有更严!她制定了一大堆规则,一环扣一环,并威胁+恐吓:如果独自开了电脑,我是知道的,后果你懂的!果然,高压之下,她儿表现得很乖,朋友很是得意。我想起了小时候有阵对电视超级迷恋。爸妈要我们在房间里写作业,而他们自己抱着电视看得不亦乐乎。
Children who grow up in freedom and respect will have amazing self-discipline. A friend approached me in excitement and she cured “Computer Game Addiction” from her 8-year-old son. I asked curiously how she did it. Friends believe in “tiger mom” education, there is no most strict, only more stringent! She developed a lot of rules, a chain deduction, and threatening + intimidation: If you open the computer alone, I know, the consequences of your Sure enough, under high pressure, her child behaved well, his friend was very proud. I remembered a super fascination with television when I was young. Mom and dad asked us to do homework in the room, and they were overwhelmed by the television.