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听说我的孩子学习成绩不错,不少熟人常问我:你是怎么教育孩子的?我的回答是:没有必要一直督促孩子学习,如果你实在忍不住非要管,那你使的劲千万不要超过孩子,否则你的付出将起反作用。很多人对我的说法不以为然,他们说你这样说是因为你的孩子学习好,你当然不用着急了。其实我这样说完全是因为我和孩子都是这种做法的受益者。这话说起来容易,做起来还真是有不少压力。因为孩子的同学在取得好成绩后都会得到家长的奖励,有些甚至会得到很丰厚的奖品,这常常使孩子耿耿于怀。就在我快要“坚守”不住,开始怀疑自己的做法是否有些不合时宜时,发生了一件让孩子释然的事情。
I heard that my child has a good academic performance and many acquaintances often ask me: How do you educate children? My answer is: There is no need to always urge children to learn, and if you can not help but control, Do not exceed children, or your pay will be counterproductive. Many people disagree with what I say, they say you say it because your child is learning well and you certainly do not have to worry. Actually, I say exactly because I and children are the beneficiaries of this practice. This remark is easy to say, it really is a lot of pressure. Because children’s classmates get the reward of parents after they have achieved good grades, some of them even get very rich prizes, which often make their children heartbroken. Just as I was about to “hold on” and began to wonder whether my approach was outdated, something happened to my children.