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古代,人们把婚姻当作是“上以事宗庙,下以继后世”的大事,因此必须经过“父母之命,媒妁之言”,人们因为不想受其束缚,经过了多年的抗争,出现了后来自由恋爱的形式,于是,相亲这一延续了几千年的婚介模式在现代社会日渐没落。今天,人们身处信息化时代,男女相识相爱有了无数种方式,即使在虚拟的网络世界也能上演动人的爱情故事。而在这诸多的相识方式中,“相亲”在都市男女中仍然是个“主流”模式,有些人甚至迷恋上这种相识方式。
In ancient times, people regarded marriage as a major event that “carried out ancestral temples and succeeded future generations.” Therefore, people must go through the phrase “the life of their parents and the media.” Because people did not want to be bound by them, after many years of struggle, they emerged Later, the form of free love, so blind dating the continuation of several thousand years of marriage intermediation mode in the modern decline. Today, when people are in the information age, there are innumerable ways for men and women to love each other, even in the virtual online world. In many of these ways of acquaintance, “blind date” is still a “mainstream” model among urban men and women, and some are even obsessed with this way of acquaintance.