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当今社会是个竞争的社会,但要学会竞争,还必须从培养竞争意识开始。首先,将自己做为竞争的对手。我们从纷繁的社会现象中看竞争,容易看到竞争就是超过别人,压倒对手就是胜利。但从竞争的心理品质来讲,诚恳、自尊、自爱,自己对自己命运负责,这才是竞争意识的基本品质。竞争的对手,从根本上讲不是别人而是自己。在个人事业中,与别人竞争虽然是现实的,但却是短见的,只是为了超过别人是一种生存的低级本能,因为假如你生存在一群庸才之中,不需费多大努力即可“鹤立鸡群”,但久而久之,你会因为心安理得而失去新的竞争愿望,成为新的庸才。而
Today’s society is a competitive society, but to learn to compete, but also must start from the cultivation of competition awareness. First, make yourself a competitor. From the numerous social phenomena we see in competition, it is easy to see that competition is superior to others. Overcoming opponents is a victory. However, in terms of the psychological quality of competition, sincerity, self-esteem, self-love and responsibility for their own destiny are the basic qualities of competition awareness. Competitors, fundamentally not others but themselves. In the personal business, competition with others is realistic, but it is short-sighted, just to surpass others as a low-level instinct of survival because if you live in a group of mediocre people, you do not need to work harder to " But as time passes, you will lose your new competitive aspirations and become a new mediocre because of your peace of mind. and