论文部分内容阅读
人生在世,不可能事事都顺心如意,不顺心如意,就难免要生气。 生气,是人们的欲望需求得不到满足,理想与现实发生矛盾冲突时所产生的一种否定性的情绪,是一种不健康的心理反应。 人有七情六欲。家里事、家外事,公家事、私人事,他人事、自己事,原则事、非原则事,对的事、错的事,大事、小事等等,都可能引起生气。由此看来,生气又是一种正常的现象,也是完全可以理解的。然而,生气非但无助于矛盾冲突的解决,反而使自己遭受痛苦的折磨,
Life is alive, not everything is satisfactory, not satisfactory, it is inevitable to be angry. Being angry is an unpleasant feeling that people’s desire needs can not be met and the conflict between ideal and reality occurs. It is an unhealthy psychological reaction. People have all kinds of emotions. Family affairs, foreign affairs, public affairs, personal matters, other matters, one’s own affairs, principle matters, non-principle things, right things, wrong things, major events, small things, etc. can all cause anger. From this, angry is a normal phenomenon, but also completely understandable. However, getting angry is not only not conducive to the solution of conflicts and conflicts, but instead afflicts ourselves with painful torment,