愚者和智者

• 作 者: 萧潇
• 出 处: 杂文选刊
• 发表日期: 2015年12期
• 关键词: 愚者 厌恶感 所累 做事方式 使人 不公平待遇 同利 宽容大度 广州日报

智者对自己所犯的错误能及时改过,从而赢得更多人的信任,能和更多双热诚的手相握,在人际关系中,获得更广阔的天地;而愚者对自己的错误却百般争辩,然而,纸终究包不住火,当真相大白之后,愚者往往失去许多朋友,陷入孤立状态之中。智者在给予批评式建议的时候,不会把话说得太露骨,而是点到为止,给对方留下余地,对方接受批评或建议的同时,还会心存感激;而愚者则单刀直入,话锋犀利,恨不得把对方的皮给剥下来,方显自己高

Wizards can make timely changes to their mistakes so as to win the trust of more people and hold more hands with more enthusiasm in order to gain a wider world in interpersonal relations. However, fools argue their mistakes in all aspects, However, after all, the paper can not contain fire. When the truth is revealed, fools often lose many of their friends and become isolated. When a wise man gives a critical suggestion, he will not speak too explicit, but instead, he will leave room for each other until the other party accepts the criticism or suggestion. At the same time, the gratitude will be grateful; while the fool will be determined and straightforward , Can not wait to peel each other’s skin, Fang himself high