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成人总希望通过道德知识的灌输、道德故事的引导、道德游戏的创设来养成儿童道德品质。但是,孩子拥有无形的生存空间,在精神独立与肉体依赖的矛盾中,时时刻刻与成人世界发生着冲突,而成人总是选择用简单化的方式来消解冲突,不仅会使儿童产生逆反心理,而且会促使一些不良行为的养成。相反,如果能够正视这种冲突,找到合理、有效的消解途径,恰恰能成为儿童道德养成的有效方式。当然,良好道德和行为习惯的养成,既不可能一蹴而就,也不可能一劳永逸,需要父母和教师在日常生活中耐心、细致地教导,用有效的方法、灵活的智慧、充沛的情感与孩子之间进行心灵的平等对话。
Adults always want to cultivate the moral character of children through the inculcation of moral knowledge, the guidance of moral stories and the creation of moral games. However, children have invisible living space, conflict with the adult world in the contradiction between spiritual independence and physical dependence, and adults always choose to simplify the conflict in a simplistic way, which not only causes the child to develop aversion , But also to promote the development of some bad behavior. On the contrary, if we can confront this kind of conflict squarely and find a reasonable and effective solution, it can just become an effective way for children’s moral development. Of course, good moral and behavioral habits can not be developed overnight or once and for all. Parents and teachers need to be patient and meticulous in their daily life. With effective methods, flexible intelligence, abundant emotions and children’s Between the spiritual dialogue.