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读到这个题目就会令一些家长感到莫名其妙:怎么?还要培养孩子胆小怕事么?这实在是一种误解,我们当然要培养孩子勇敢坚强的精神,也确需时时向孩子倾注一颗爱心,但有时过分的溺爱也容易导致一些孩子家里家外“不怕人”,什么事都不在话下,事事“独断专行”。这不是一种好的品格,要纠正这种现象,使孩子成为心理健全的人,必须有意识从小培养孩子的“惧怕感”。 现代教育学和儿童心理学告诉我们,在儿童健全人格的塑造中,应当惯之以一定的适度的惧怕感,这样才能使儿童具有自我约束,自我控制,自我纠正的意识和能力。比如
Reading this topic will make some parents feel baffled: how to? Also timid children afraid of it? This is really a misunderstanding, of course, we must cultivate the brave and strong spirit of the child, but also indeed need to pour a love to the child , But sometimes excessive spoiled also easily lead some children home “not afraid of people”, nothing goes wrong, everything “arbitrary”. This is not a good character. To correct this phenomenon so that children become mentally sound people, we must consciously raise children’s “fear.” Modern pedagogy and children’s psychology tell us that we should be accustomed to a moderate sense of fear in the shaping of a sound child’s personality, so as to enable the child to have self-restraint, self-control and self-correction awareness and ability. such as