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我们相信孩子在成长过成中,其行为模式大都受周围环境的大人(父母、老师、兄长)所影响:所以发现孩子有骄傲心态时,一味地责怪孩子,是不恰当的。其实孩子有这种心态,主要还是过分夸大自己的能力,不愿面对真正的问题所致。所以父母除了在日常生活中避免做夸大、不实的赞美,或与他人相比来刺激孩子外,只需积极地利用“机会教育”让孩子了解“人外有人”及“谦虚”的道理即可开导孩子。许多父母在孩子有超越学年的表现时,往往过分夸大孩子的能力,误导孩子自我膨胀,以至于产生骄傲心态。其实除鼓励他的成绩外,更应该让他知道许多小朋友也像他一样有超越同龄的表现。
We believe that children’s growth patterns are mostly influenced by the adults (parents, teachers, and elders) in their surroundings: Therefore, it is not appropriate to blame the children once they find their children have a sense of pride. In fact, children have this mentality, mainly exaggerated their ability, do not want to face the real problems caused. Therefore, in addition to exaggerating, false praise, or stimulating children in daily life, parents should only actively use “opportunity education” to let their children understand the principle of “outsiders” and “humble” Can guide the child. Many parents often overstate the ability of their children to mislead their children into self-inflating when they have surpassed the performance of their school year, resulting in a sense of pride. Apart from encouraging his achievements, he should even let him know that many children have the same performance as their peers.