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生活案例我今年65岁,退休前在一个机关工作。刚退休那会儿,感觉还不错,轻轻松松的,自由自在的,挺好。可是现在感觉越来越不好,最大的难题是孤独和寂寞。实在孤独寂寞了,有时候我就去单位转转。可是没去几次,就觉得不能再去了。因为每次到单位里,年轻的同事们看到我,又是让座,又是倒茶,让我明显感觉到,自己不再是这里的主人,而成了十足的客人,大家对我已经像招待客人一样了。一个退休的人,怎么能总给人家添麻烦呢?于是,我就继续闷在家里。可是,习惯了忙忙碌碌,一个人闷在家里太清静,太清闲。如今我是远离了工作,远离了人群,远离了外面的世界。孩子们住的地方又离我们老两口挺远的,很难常回家看看。老伴倒
Life Case I am 65 years old and I work in an office before I retire. Just retired, I feel pretty good, relaxed, free, very good. But now feel more and more bad, the biggest problem is loneliness and loneliness. It is lonely, sometimes I go to the unit. But did not go a few times, I feel can not go anymore. Because every time I come to the unit, young colleagues see me, seat again, and pour tea, so that I obviously feel that I am no longer the master here and become a full guest. Everyone has been like me Same for entertaining guests A retired person, how can it always give people trouble? So, I continue to bored at home. However, used to busy, a person bored at home too quiet, too leisure. Now I am away from the work, away from the crowd, away from the outside world. Where children live away from our old married couple, it is often difficult to go home and see. His wife down