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马老师:你好!我的孩子小强在上初中.其学习成绩在班里位居末流。他对自己的学习似乎已没有了兴趣.更没有信心。他说要把自己的成绩赶到前面去.实在是太难了。看到与同学们这种巨大差距,他既心急如焚,又心灰意冷。恰巧我妹妹的孩子也上初中.人家的孩子在班上是尖子生.还是三好学生.我们就让儿子向他学习,争取赶超他。但是儿子缺乏信心。我们一让他去比.他就露出一副垂头丧气的样子.说什么“我怎么和人家比呀,人家天生就大脑聪明,而我的大脑笨。”哎,真是没出息。
Mr. Ma: Hello! My kid, Xiaoqiang, is in junior high school and his academic record is the last in class. He seems to have no interest in his studies, but no confidence. He said it would be too hard to get ahead of his achievements. He saw such a huge gap with his classmates, he was anxious, but also disheartened. It happens that my sister’s children also junior high school.Other children in the class is a top student, or a good student, we let his son learn from him, to catch him. But his son lacked confidence. When we let him go, he showed a dejected look, saying “What should I do with others? People are smart about their brains, and my brains are stupid.”