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在当下的人,特别是受过一些教育的城里人看来,结婚应当是男女双方之间个人感情上的事,是爱情引发了个体的结合,也相应引出了作为制度的婚姻。可是细想一下就会发现,如果纯粹是两个人之间的私事,那么,无论是感情还是性,都根本无需婚姻这种法律的或习俗的制度认可。如今,无论在西方还是东方,同居都比以前更常见,没有婚姻并没有限制同居男女之间情感的交往和性的获得。因此,我们没有理由认为,作为制度的婚姻是为了满足性、满足异性间感情的需要。如果一定要较真,婚姻制度可能从一开始反倒是为了限制和规制人
In the present people, especially some educated urban people, marriage should be a personal and emotional affair between men and women. Love causes the combination of individuals and leads to marriage as a system. However, if you think about it carefully, you will find that if it is purely a matter of private affairs between two people, no legal or customary system of marriage is recognized at all, no matter whether it is emotional or sexual. Nowadays, cohabitation is more common in the West and in the East than before. No marriage does not limit the emotional dealings and sexual acquisition of cohabitation between men and women. Therefore, we have no reason to think that marriage as a system is to satisfy the needs of the opposite sex. If it must be more true, the marriage system may have been to restrict and regulate people from the very beginning