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爱情,本来就是天底下最大的难题,从情窦初开伊始到最后驾鹤西去,有些人一生都在苦苦寻觅真爱而不得果。就如人生的道路,太多人走过,太少人明白。深陷情海的痴男怨女夜深人静时冥思苦想,总要困惑缘何会一次次跌倒,一次次失败,在同一个地方,同一个人身上,犯错无数次?记住,勿怪他人。一切前因后果,悲欢离合都要独自承担。这是作为成年人,必须所要具备的勇气和能力。更何况,爱情难题中,所作的任何决定与选择,无不以自我利益为第一出发点。讲什么“牺牲、忍让、吃亏”都是托词,归根到底,人最爱的仍是自己。比如你愿意原谅劈腿男,给彼此再一次机会。无非是顾虑离开他之后自己会单身,再难短时间内找到了解你性情的人一同玩乐,甚至安全嫁出去。又或者你是太爱他,怕自己放走对方,经受失恋磨难会痛不欲生。又比如分开之后再做朋友,呀,一定是对方身上有你所需之处无法抛开。否则,面对伤害过你的人,怎可能再相安无事去面对?如何处理这些爱情中的难题?记住一点足够:要对自己好。
Love has always been the biggest problem under the sun and the sky, from the beginning of love to the last drive west, some people are struggling to find true love hard to bear fruit. As the path of life, too many people have passed, too few people understand. Deep in the sea of crazy men and women complaining about the dead of night in the dead, there are always puzzled Why will fall again and again fail again and again in the same place, the same person who made many mistakes? Remember, do not blame others. All the causes and consequences, joys and sorrows must be alone. This is the courage and ability that adults must possess. What’s more, in the difficult problem of love, whatever decisions and choices are made are based on the principle of self-interest. What to say “sacrifice, tolerance, loss ” are all excuses, in the final analysis, people still love themselves. For example, you are willing to forgive cheating male, give each other another chance. Is nothing more than worry about leaving alone after he will be single, and then find it difficult for you to find someone who understands your temperament to play together, and even marry safely out. Or you are too loving him, afraid to let go of each other, suffering grievances painful life. Another example is to be friends after separation, ah, it must be the other person where you need can not be thrown away. Otherwise, in the face of people who hurt you, how can we face the peace? How to deal with these problems in love? Remember a little enough: to be good to yourself.