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惩罚和奖励是两种对立的教育方法。惩罚是消极的,要少用、慎用,其中体罚和变相体罚应绝对禁止。奖励是积极的,但用之不当,也会带来消极的后果——影响受教育者品德的健康发展。在当今的家庭教育中,这方面的事例并不少见。如: 1.星期天,小林在家里玩,把玩具弄得满地都是。爸爸让他把玩具收拾好准备吃饭他就是不干。爸爸说:“你把玩具收拾好,吃完饭后给你买块冰糕。”他很快就把玩具收拾好了。2.有一天,毛毛帮助爸爸妈妈做了不少家务事,在饭前擦好桌子,摆好筷子,饭后收拾碗筷,爸爸妈妈都很高兴。晚上,爸爸到附近商店里买了一包牛肉
Punishment and reward are two opposite educational methods. Punishment is negative, less used and caution, and corporal punishment and disguised corporal punishment should be absolutely forbidden. Reward is positive, but improper use can have negative consequences - affecting the healthy development of the educated. In today’s family education, examples of this are not uncommon. Such as: 1. Sunday, Kobayashi play at home, make toys all over the place. Dad let him put the toys ready to eat he is not quit. Dad said, “You packed the toys and bought you some ice-cream after dinner.” He quickly packed the toys. One day, plush hair to help parents do a lot of household chores, wipe the table before meals, put chopsticks, clean dishes after dinner, Mom and Dad are very happy. In the evening, my father bought a bag of beef at a nearby shop