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在离婚率居高不下的今天,很多夫妻的问题出在不够亲密。性生活很少,或只是形式;缺乏拥抱、亲吻、牵手等纯粹的身体接触;不能向彼此敞开心扉,分享情绪和感受;没有人文上的共识;没有共同欣赏的事物;没有共同的朋友圈……这样的夫妻,住在同一个房间,却是两条平行线;这样的夫妻,往往重亲情轻亲密,将更多的精力用在儿女、父母身上,对彼此缺乏信任,有防御心理,各自“留有一手”。其实,两个相爱的人,一开始本有足够亲密的关系。但进入婚姻后,却只剩下柴米油盐、鸡毛蒜皮的琐事,夫妻关系渐行渐远。究竟是什么原因,破坏了夫妻之间的亲密关系呢?
In today’s high divorce rate, many couples are not intimate enough. Lack of sexual life, or just form; lack of hug, kiss, hand and other pure physical contact; can not open to each other, to share emotions and feelings; no human consensus; no common appreciation of things; no common circle of friends ... ... Such a couple, living in the same room, but it is parallel to the two lines; such husband and wife, often heavy affection close, will be more energy used in children, parents, lack of trust in each other, defensive mentality, each “Left hand ”. In fact, the two people in love, from the very beginning, have a close enough relationship. However, after entering the marriage, but only the daily necessities, flagrant trivia, the relationship between husband and wife lopsided. What is the reason, undermining the intimacy between husband and wife?