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在成员众多的传统家庭中,大都有一套生活规范和制度,以此来维护整个家庭的和睦稳定。现在,几代同堂的大家庭基本上已被小家庭所取代,而且小家庭中往往只有一个孩子,这样的小家庭人们认为似乎没有必要建立一定的生活规范和制度。但是,无论从哪方面讲,一套可行的生活规范对于孩子健康成长是十分有益的。首先,社会是一个纷繁而复杂的大家庭,在这样的环境中,成长的孩子需要独立地生存下去,就必须有相当的自我克制和自我约束的能力。父母们制定一定的和社会生活相一致的要求和规则,可以使孩子从小懂得,他生活在一个具有许多成员的大家庭里,人们彼此要友好相处,不能自己想怎么样就怎么样,必须具备忍让、克制和宽容的品质,学会遵守共同的行为规则。其次,制定行为规范,可使父母在教育孩子的过程中出现不同意见时,能有共同遵守的原则,而不致各执己见,令孩子不知
In many traditional family members, most have a set of norms and systems of life in order to safeguard the harmony and stability of the entire family. Now that the extended families have been replaced by small families for generations, and there are often only one child in a small family, such small families do not consider it necessary to establish norms and systems of living. However, no matter from which aspect, a feasible norms of life for the healthy growth of children is very useful. First of all, society is a complex and complex community where grown children need to survive independently and must have considerable self-restraint and self-restraint. Parents should formulate certain requirements and rules that are consistent with social life so that children can understand at an early age. He lives in a large family with many members and people are friendly to each other. They can not think what they want and they must have Forbearance, restraint and tolerance of quality, learn to comply with common rules of conduct. Second, to formulate a code of conduct that enables parents to observe the principle of common compliance when different opinions are expressed in the process of educating their children, so as not to obsess about it and make the children not aware of it