你曾多少次,误解了别人

• 作 者: 逸茗
• 出 处: 小品文选刊
• 发表日期: 2015年03期
• 关键词: 《吕氏春秋》 日没 一粒米 周游列国 孔圣人 观察错误 相知相惜 亲眼所见 知人

我们主观的了解观察,只是真相的千分之一,你曾经多少次误解了你的家人、朋友和同事?《吕氏春秋》里有一段,讲孔子周游列国,曾因兵荒马乱,旅途困顿,三餐以野菜果腹,大家已七日没吃下一粒米饭。一天,颜回好不容易要到了一些白米煮饭,饭快煮熟时,孔子看到颜回掀起锅盖,抓些白饭往嘴里塞,孔子当时装作没看见,也不去责问。饭煮好后,颜回请孔子进食,孔子假装若有所思地说:“我刚才梦到祖先来找我,我想把干净的、还没人吃过的米饭,先拿来祭祖先。”

How many times have you misunderstood your family, friends, and colleagues? There was a passage in the Spring and Autumn Annals in which we talked about Confucius traveling around the world, Potherb mustard meal, we have not eaten a grain of rice on the 7th. One day, Yan Hui finally got some rice to cook. When rice was cooked, Confucius saw Yan Hui set off the lid, grab some white rice and stuffed it in his mouth. When Confucius was pretending to have not seen it, he did not blame him. When the rice was cooked, Yan asked Confucius to eat. Confucius pretended to think thoughtfully: “I just dreamed that my ancestors came to see me. I wanted to bring the ancestors clean before I had eaten rice first.”