中等生的烦恼

• 作 者: 陈洁
• 出 处: 辅导员
• 发表日期: 2005年10期
• 关键词: 精神关怀 品质特征 精神生命 精神需求 学习成绩 周记 陈老师 内心独白 十年

辅导员作为队员的“精神关怀者”,只有了解、把握不同个体的品质特征和精神需求,才能在少先队活动的内容和方式上,找到最好的时机和结合点。这样,活动才可能真正成为精神生命的相互碰撞,从而生发出更多鲜活的道德个性。孩子活动的地方,就一定存在着兴趣;孩子扎堆的地方,就一定隐藏着秘密。辅导员要想方设法融入其中,无拘无束地和孩子们生活在一起。待到孩子们对你不存戒心,不视为外人时,你才能叩开他们的心扉,窥见一个儿童的“真天地”。

Counselors as members of the “spiritual care”, only to understand and grasp the quality of individual characteristics and spiritual needs, in order to young Pioneers content and manner, to find the best time and combination point. In this way, activities can truly become the collision of mental life, thus giving birth to more fresh moral character. There must be interest in the place where the child is active; the place where the child gets together must be hidden. Counselors need to find ways to blend in and stay with children for free. When the children are not wary of you and are not regarded as outsiders, you can knock open their hearts and see a child’s “true world.”