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让孩子认错的艺术,并不是用呵斥加棍棒,而是耐心地讲道理,让他们弄清楚自己到底错在哪里。否则,让重压之下的孩子屈打成招,走入口服心不服的误区,效果只会适得其反。邻家有个顽皮大男孩,属于“屡教不改”的典型。经过一段时间的观察和了解,我发现他“屡教不改”的原因是出在“教”上。孩子上中学后,回忆起当年父母教训自己时,说了这样一句话:“他们只知道天天打我,直到打得我认错才罢休。但很多时候他们不了
The art of letting children admit to mistakes is not to scold the sticks, but to reason reasonably and let them figure out where they are wrong. Otherwise, under the pressure of children under the torture into tricks, into the erroneous oral refusal, the effect will only be counterproductive. There is a naughty boy next door, belonged to the ”repeated education does not change “ typical. After a period of observation and understanding, I found that he ”does not change “ is due to ”teaching “ on. When I was in high school, the child recalled the fact that when the parents taught themselves that year, they said: ”They just know that they hit me every day, until I admit that I am wrong, but in many cases they can not