论文部分内容阅读
案例: 真不知道自己是怎样的人 这是1996年10月的某一天,快放学时,咨询室里来了位男同学。他一进门就坐在沙发上,半天也没说话,两手不停地摆弄着衣角。……我给他倒了一杯水,他用感激的眼光看着我,终于说出了第一句话:“我现在真不知道自己是个怎样的人,你能帮助我吗?”此话来得很快,而他那渴望的眼神又使我感到突然。为了表示对他心情的理解,我很快回答说:“行,我想我是能够帮助你的。”他的眼睛微微一亮,显得有些激动。 他是个刚进高一的新生。初中时十分活泼,待人热情,成绩不错,可是现在学习成绩下降,还经常出现焦虑情绪,尤其是大部分话都是说半句,欲吐又止。他的表现明显反映出是情绪困惑,看来他心中好像有块大石头压着,究竟是什么呢?
Case: I really do not know what kind of person This is one day in October 1996, soon after school hours, counseling room to a male student. He sat on the couch as soon as he entered the house, did not speak for a long time, and kept playing with his hands. ... I poured him a glass of water, he looked at me with gratitude, and finally said the first sentence: “I now really do not know what kind of person you are, can you help me?” Very soon, and his thirsty eyes made me feel suddenly again. In order to express my understanding of his feelings, I quickly replied: “OK, I think I can help you.” His eyes a little light, it seems a bit agitated. He is a freshman who has just entered the first year. When junior high school is very lively, treat people enthusiasm, good grades, but now decline in academic performance, but also often appear anxiety, especially in most words are said half sentence, to vomit and stop. His performance clearly reflects the emotional confusion, it seems that his heart seems to have a large rock pressure, what is it?