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大多数称自己患有交际障碍的人,不是不知道交际的技巧,有的人甚至看过许多教人如何交际的书,专业知识比心理咨询师还全面。但他们仍然月复一月,年复一年地陷在“不会交际”的苦恼之中。张明来到咨询室时就是这样, “我看许多书上告诉人们在哪种情况下应该怎么说、怎么做,但我就是不会,总担心和别人在一起时我不会说话,我这样子,以后出去工作怎么办?”我建议他,忘掉看过的书,抛开那些条条框框,明天和身边的一个人(同桌、同宿舍、好朋友都可以)谈谈他的爱好;后天向任
Most people who claim to have communicative disabilities do not know the skills of communication. Some people even read many books about how to teach people how to communicate. Their professional knowledge is more comprehensive than psychological counselors. But they are still month after month, year after year, and they are trapped in the distress of “not communicating.” This is the case when Zhang came to the consultation room, “I read many books to tell people under what circumstances should be how to say, how to do it, but I just do not always worry about being with others I can not speak, I like this , And later go out to work how to do? ”I suggest him, forget to read the book, put aside those rules, tomorrow and a person around (at the same table, with dorm, good friends can) talk about his hobby; acquired Ren